Why Do I Have To Reset My Console?

Don't confuse the # of servers with the developers decisions to use these servers.

Updates will always come during non-peak time intervals. Downloading a game is mostly "your" connection speed and "your ISP+ router/modem "

Playing online is great but subject to how a developer sets up. All but two games run on a non-Xbox server (cloud based gaming) so considering most developers do not have hundreds of servers placed worldwide....you might experience bad or terrible Internet
experiences.

Not excusing the Xbox live issues lately but most of what's being talked about about is on the developers and the customers...not Xbox.

specific to resetting your Xbox One for updates...either a setting is wrong (like an external HD is off or in a mode that prevents updates) or a faulty system.

Some games don't auto update based on how the game or patch is implemented....lots of variables apply.

When did the update go pubkic in your region?

still having this, official response would be great.

So you're saying when you launch the game there is not a prompt?

Then how did you know the update was available?

If your settings under system are turned on, then it will automatically check fir updates any apply them while in standby....if an update hits while youre playing it wont stop you and update unless its mandatory.

What are your settings?

do you have checked "Automatically download updates and purchases" under power options?