When I get on xbox one grand theft auto I can’t join crew or freinds it says I’m in avoid...

Im not in bad sport im avoid me lobbys how to get out its been a week or two 🤦��‍♂️??

Hello follow the link that they gave you above. It will tell you about your player history. At some point in time players rated you not so good. This bring your player rating down. Like if you cheat alot, leave games, not so nice when you talk players
will rate you. So now you'll be in lobbies with all the other players that are avoided.

Spam reports dont go through. You may be in a bad sport lobby. If your profile says “avoid me”, you may not be able to join till after your profile improves. Try contacting Enforcment! Have a great day!

https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-us

They said bad sports u at least have a date how long is This suppose this is huge mess up im no try hard i dont wanna be in lobbys thats all bout fightinh

The time you will be banished into a bad sport lobby is really based on how much you managed to annoy/destroy other players items or experience in game.

Bad Sports

The main known factors that contribute to Bad Sport status:

• Destroying other player's personal Vehicles appears to be a key factor in being designated a bad
  sport. While killing a character appears to be penalty-free, wrecking cars owned by other players is an easy way to get blacklisted.

• Dropping from Jobs mid-mission is
  a sure-fire way to get labeled a bad sport. Rage-quitting or stepping out of online matches has a direct negative effect on your sporting
  status.
• Getting reported for annoying players and griefing.
• Getting voted out of Jobs.

The first Bad Sport designation reportedly lasts two days with subsequent banishments increasing duration of time in
bad sport lobbies.

The opposite of a GTA Online Bad Sport is a Good Sport who gains a reputation for
fair play and relative courtesy. Good Sports will also receive cash rewards and discounts periodically for their behavior.