Update of the game for xbox

The update size of games is up to the developer. They improve the game and then send the update to Xbox to release it for the gamers to update their games.

If certain games are not loading or experiencing issues on your Xbox Series X. Please try to update your Xbox console

Ensure that both your Xbox Series X and the problematic games are up to date. Game developers often release patches and updates to fix bugs and improve performance. To update your console and games, follow these steps:

Go to "Settings" > "System" > "Updates & downloads" > "Console update" to check for Xbox system updates.
To update games, go to "My games & apps," highlight the game that needs an update, press the "Menu" button on your controller (the one with three lines), and then select "Manage game & add-ons." From there, you can check for updates.

It should be on your updates section on my games and apps

If you're still having trouble receiving the update, you could also try to download the Xbox Insider Hub app and sign up for the Minecraft (Bedrock Edition) Beta. even though the 1.14 update for Bedrock is public, as its the update that brought bees to this
version, if for whatever reason you cannot receive the public update the private version through the beta which as more up-to-date patches that get rolled out frequently may be a good option for you to 'force' the update to happen. Its completely free and
comes with a few minor stipulations such as you can't play with people who aren't running that current version (because its receiving more frequent updates and testing features) as well as the fact you de-enroll from the beta updates through the Insider Hub
at any point... you won't be able to play on worlds generated through the beta until the update they were created on is made public.

For the patch notes over the public 1.14 check out this link.

https://minecraft.gamepedia.com/Bedrock_Edition_1.14.0

If you're interested in trying out a different Minecraft experience through the beta on the Insiders Hub check this out.

https://insider.xbox.com/en-us/

That is interesting, i checked the game website and it doesn't look like it requires a internet connection, the game should be able to update even if you were blocked ( i think). Have you tried resetting your Xbox to see if it fixes it?

Thank you, yes I have already tried resetting it but the issue continues. I think I can only play a game from a physical disk until they unblock me I don't have another explanation