unshare xbox gold

Change your home console, then change it in your Microsoft account. that's how I do it.

You can only share your gold with one xbox one console. However, because the account itself still has gold, as an option, you can share the gold with one console, and play with the gold account on the other. Also, as long as you are logged in to a gold account,
you automatically share the gold, so if you keep the gold account signed in on the unsharing xbox one, it will still effectively share gold.

All your friend needs to do is go to the settings on his account and then make this his xbox home. Issue will be resolved.

IF he has done this more than 3 times in a year (rolling), then he will have to wait until the 1st of the changes took place (1 year from that date).

No there is no way to reset this.

Have a good one.

Lets get something out of the way first alright game sharing is a form of market place theft and is punishable by account suspension i advise you not take part in this act.

Lets try a power cycle tell your friend to hold the power button on his console for 8 seconds until it powers down once off tell him to unplug his power supply and HDMI cable then wait up to 5 minutes with no interruption and plug it in and test it, the
green boot logo should appear running a check on the console.

Hey DIPDIP0TAT0CH1P if you are not aware they can sometimes find errors in the home xbox section if so it can result in a faulty reading and display saying they reached the limit support does have the power to reset the limit but only if it is for a reason
they cannot do it out of courtesy.