trying to find a solution

Hi there,

You can try phone support to see if they can assist at all, but nothing can be moved between accounts. You can go
here to get the number for your region.

You can log in here
enforcement.xbox.com/Home to see any enforcement action on your account.

If you & your friends keep getting suspensions then you are obviously breaking the CoC/ToU so it may be worth reading it again

http://www.xbox.com/en-GB/Legal/CodeOfConduct?xr=footnav

As for the enforcement team showing you proof,they are under no obligation to do so which is something you agreed to when you started your account.

So people can say what they want and I am automatically guilty? No proof required? I cant have a chance to defend myself?

There are literally thousands of people in the enforcement forums crying about how innocent they are and how it's always someone else's fault.

If you're willing to spend the enormous amount it would cost you, then you'd have every right to initiate legal action against Microsoft. However, if you found that you could afford to waste that kind of money, then you'd also find that they would have plenty
of evidence to back their case, were they compelled to by a court. The reason it is their policy to refuse to validate every ban case, is the time and effort it would cost the company to do so, were it to become routine.

If you want to fight it, you certainly can. If it were me, I'd just get off Live and buy a house with the savings.

FYI Here is this copied from a similar concern about bans somewhere I saw and kept it for concerns like this Will I get banned just because I received complaints?

No. A common misconception is that a certain number of reports will result in an automatic suspension. According to the myth, even if you haven’t done anything wrong someone can get you suspended by encouraging players to file many complaints. This is completely
untrue.

XBLPET investigates complaints and takes each report into consideration when making an enforcement decision, but a certain volume or frequency of complaints doesn’t guarantee a suspension. We take an evidence-based approach to enforcement and take numerous
factors into account when considering issuing a suspension. The context around the content or activity is particularly essential and drives our decision-making process. Simply put, there is no magic formula that instantly results in a suspension.

Despite what some may claim, XBLPET will never ever ban anyone “for no reason”. Suspensions always occur as a result of a specific Code of Conduct violation.

To help avoid future Enforcement actions, please review our Enforcement website, the Xbox Live Code of Conduct and the Terms of Use here:

http://enforcement.xbox.com/

www.xbox.com/.../CodeOfConduct

www.xbox.com/.../LiveTOU

http://www.xbox.com/consoleban