talking through headphone

There are a few work a rounds you can do.

1) There are mic and headphone connectors for 360 from 3rd party developers that plug into controller and let you connect a standard PC headset to a 360 controller

2) you could simply ignore the mic and plug headphones into the TV then put the 360 headset over them and set it to play voice back through speakers then you get the voice chat through the headphones and the headset over the top to talk into and talk to
people.

3) The final one is a mix of both and I'm not sure if it even works, you connect your headset with the mic bit in the controller and the headphone audio into the TV headphone socket then change the 360 settings to play voice chat etc through the speakers
which as you have the headphone plugged in should put the sound through the headphone to you.

i think you misunderstand. Everything is fine except i can't hear myself through my own headphones. mic monitoring, mic feedback.. what ever you want to call it. I want to be able to hear myself when i talk while i have headphones on, just like i could with
the 360.

I'm not sure exactly what you're asking. A standard 2.5mm headphone jack through a wireless controller would provide pretty dismal audio quality for game audio. If you're talking about the console supporting output for stereo/surround headsets through optical
out, then yes it does.

Hi, I hope you're doing great out there despite the issue that you're experiencing. I am an Independent advisor and I am here to help you in regards to your concern.

It can be the console as well, kindly perform a reset on your console keeping your games and apps. Don't worry because as long as you're connected to Xbox Live your saved progress, games, will not be deleted. It will remove all of your accounts but you can add all of them later on.

Press the Xbox button to open the guide.

Select Profile & system > Settings > System > Console info.

Select Reset console.

Reset and keep my games & apps.

If you're talking about the Xbox One's Stereo Headset Adapter, then yes you can mute the TV. The adapter will allow ytou to play all of game, chat and system audio through the headphones and, like I do, mute the TV.