Profile error?

Have you tried logging out of your profile and logging back in? If that doesn't help maybe try removing your profile completely and the add it back. Let us know. Good Luck!

Are you using the same credentials to log in here that you use on live? If so you are only showing silver here.

No I use another one, I just had Origin on the phone and even they confirmed I was an xbox live gold member.

Thanks, well at first my problems started when i couldnt connect because "another device had been signed into my ip address and i had to change it. After i did that my xbox would randomly dissconect me. I called again and they had me do some basic stuff
and after that things were ok for a small time, but then my xbox live started running very slowly and i couldnt connect to matches or join friends or partys. I called and they had me do other things but he just came to the conclusion that my router must have
something wrong with it because of the flashing red light but my xbox has been the only thing effected. My friend brought his file and he joined a party and his uncle in borderlands 2. Yesterday somehow he managed to get me in the match with those two as well.
I was not able to do this until i turned on my controller and joined through split screen on my file

Hello Orchestra, I'm sorry to hear you've been having so much trouble with this. We definitely want to get you online! Can you let us know exactly what messages you get when you try to sign in? Word-for-word would be best. Please include any numerical codes
as well.

You also mentioned that a friend came to your house with their profile and did not have such issues. Would you be able to try at their house with your profile? Let's see if the issues stay with the account. Thanks, and welcome to the Forums.