Plug in my headset controller just dies

Yes i have.. both of my controllers are up-to-date.. it's not that the headset doesn't work.. it's just that if it's plugged into one controller and i decide to use another controller after the one i am using has died it just doesn't register and i have
to restart my xbox

When my headset is plugged in when I power on my controller it never comes on. The controller just blinks. I have to plug in the headset after the power is fully on the headset. Then it works fine.

Yeah. I tried that. It says no updates are available.

Of note, I thought my Xbox Stereo headset had died so I bought one of the wireless TurtleBeach headsets that don't plug into the controller.

It doesn't work on any of the 3 consoles either.

Yup, I came here just now to research this same exact problem. Started 2 nights ago. My controller died for no reason (the batteries were pretty fresh) so I swapped out for new batteries and no luck. Unplugged my headset and lo and behold the controller
worked. Tried plugging the headset back in several times. Each time it would "kill" the controller.

To make matters worse. The next day I tried turning on my One using my controller and that wouldn't even work. I took the batteries out and popped them back in again and it finally worked. Without the headset plugged in, of course.

Of note, I treat my controllers like gold. No tantrum throws or dropping them anywhere. I'd update the controller, but don't have the usb cable to do so.

The wired headset doesn’t plug into my controller just the Xbox