Party issues, connection issues.....Issues

I just git my console yesterday. Upgraded from 360 to play Destiny with friends. I'm about 2 seconds from returning it. Everytime I hit the xbox button while in a party everyone starts lagging and soon after everyones mic icon goes white and I can no longer
hear anyone. I can't even start a new party it says there are people in the party but I cannot see them. I have to reboot my xbox to fix the problem.

Also when playing destiny anytime I hit the xbox button or I try to read a message or something I get disconnected from the game. It happens about 80 pct of the time. This is not what I expected from a next gen console. I can't even remotely enjoy it.

Also half of thre time I try to view my friends it says we were unable to get your friends right now. Not to mention most of the ui is terribly slow.

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Party connection issues

Why would I contact Xbox Support when I already post here? Anyways all they are going to tell me to try doing troubleshooting steps when they won't work and like I said this is not happening to just me.

 

Party connection issues

Just recently, I have had problems with connecting and staying in parties. I have checked my network and multiplayer connection and it says there are no problems, I have no problem connection and staying in multiplayer games either.

Plus, when I am in a party and get disconnected, I get the error code 0x89231804 and it says there is no available error information. Is it me or is it the new update?

Many thanks.

 

lol this seem to be ur nat setting and ur internet provider and btw making ur complaining about the party chat function u do realise that the game has a build in voice server were u dont need to make a party

and if u have party chat open (while in snap mode or just running in the background) u will not hear ur friends if there not in ur party all u have to do is close party chat and ull see them talkin in destiny or they are in a room without u

so fallow me here if u first turn on ur xbox load up destiny and invite ur friends to join ur fire team in the game ( not the party chat option) u will hear them

if u open up party chat u will no longer hear them because u are in party chat server and they are on bungies in game voice server u will hear them if they accept ur invitation to ur party the best thing to do if u dont understand is everyone just hit the
xb1 button hit the start button on party chat and hit quit once that is not running u will b put back in the games voice channel and if ur friends do the same they will b heard now if u quit party chat and u go back to destiny and talk and there not talkin
to u then they have a party started and havent invited/accepted u to it yet lol there is nothing wronge with the servers been on every day the last week 100% fine Florida USA

 

from the way u talk i think it u not the xbox man i don tthink u grasp the fact that u have 2 chat channels destinys and the snap feature if ur in feature u will not hear the ppl in the game unless there in the snap party chat or vice versa most games work
like this lol

 

Obvioisly I know the game has a chat feature. Not everyone in our party is in the same fireteam since we have more than 3 friends playing. So instead of talkin to me like an idiot how about you address the fact that when I go to my messages it should not
lock up party chat. No it doesn't put me or anyone else in game chat. It just bugs out.

 

which router do you have? do you run the latest Firmware? Is your NAT open?