Notifications not working when someone joins party

My notifications are delayed as well. If someone joins my party, achievements, messages, everything. BTW hard reset didn't work

I have a hard time accepting invites. When the notification appears to press the center button to join a party and game, most of the time I apparently don't hold it down long enough or I hold it down too long and get the console off option. Why is this do
difficult? Never had any issues on the 360.

Also, it seems like whenever my friends and I try to party up, someone always has issues joining and when we do, usually someone ends up cold booting their xbox to get their party chat to work.

Please fix this and get us back to what we had on the 360.

Thanks

And i will get a notification if someone adds me as a friend, someone online, and even when someones streaming. But not a invite to a party.

I'm talking about notification whilst playing games, like when someone signs in and you see their online, if I'm playing a game whilst in an XBL party and someone in the party goes away it would be good when they change their status to away or busy a notification
pops up for me and the others in the party, like wise for me if I go away to do something I just change my status and a notification pops up for the others in the party.

Its real inconveniant especially since its the weekend when lots and lots of pp r on. voice chat in games works perfectly. Parties, invites, messages, notifications, friends lists r not working. Had a friend who joined my party this morning. Sunday 3:50pm
here.