Not being able to leave my family

Hello, izzy. Thanks for reaching out. I'm Lucas, an Independent Advisor and a Microsoft user just like you. I'll be glad to help you out.

Unfortunately, child accounts cannot change their Xbox profile privacy settings. Doesn't matter if they are on a family group or not - and if you are, you cannot leave the group too.

Also, changing your Microsoft account birthdate does not change your Xbox profile birthdate. So if you try to change it to make yourself an adult, it will not work. The Xbox profile birthdate is set when you create your Xbox profile and cannot be changed.

Your only option here if you need to change your privacy settings is to ask a parent to create a family group (if there isn't one already), invite you to the group as a member and change your privacy settings for you.

For a detailed tutorial on how to do it, please refer to:
https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/account-bil...

https://support.xbox.com/help/family-online-saf...

Feel free to ask back any questions.

Hi gniviL, if you only just upgraded to the family pack it can take a little while for the system to update your account information. You can try to speed things up by doing an xbox live network test on your console or sometimes simply signing out and then
back into your profile works.

If I change my adult account password, won't he still be able to go into his account and just "leave" the family?

there is an account in my family which is the adult and i cannot access this account anymore because the gamertag has changed but i dont use this account at all.I cannot leave this family to be able to join another one.

Being able to share gold with my family and share our games