New friends list ,joinable games on the side

That's strange. She must have the ability checked off for friends to join her online world if her daughter can join. I was going to suggest making sure she has it set to "joinable" within the Minecraft menu. Has she also tried to send you a Game Invite
through her actual friends list on the console? While she's in the game, she can press the Home button to pull up the side menu, go to Friends List, find you, and select Invite > Invite to Game. That should also work if her world is online and joinable. I've
joined and invited friends to my Minecraft games before through the Friends List like that. Good luck, I hope that works!

Usually this means that your friend does not have their game set to joinable, have them follow these instructions to change that:

1.) Hit the home button on your controller

2.) Go to your friends app

3.) Go to "My Profile" on the left hand side

4.) On the right hand side you will see Destiny, click on it

5.) The third option down says "Requires Invites" click on that and it will say "Set to Joinable"

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try pressing select on your controller and changing your party options to "Joinable public" or "Joinable Friends"

Hmm. Strange. Perhaps the lobby slots are full, but I doubt that. Perhaps your friend has invite only set, but somehow it shows up as a joinable session on your side. But that shouldn't be showing up as joinable.

Most likely it must be a random connection issue between you and your friend if you get randomly disconnected and can't join sessions in progress in any games.

You should try retesting your xbox live connection in the system menu. If that doesn't help, it must be a problem beyond the scope of the xbox itself.

Hi,

The process to create cross-play sessions is the same as any other Minecraft multiplayer game – set up your world and you're ready to go. For those with an existing

Minecraft Realm from other platforms, these steps can be ignored.

Select Play from the main menu.

Choose Create New under the Worlds tab.

Select Create New World to start a fresh game.

Navigate to the Multiplayer subsection.

Check multiplayer is enabled.

Select Create once you're ready to play

Using Minecraft's Friends tab is a quick way to see active games and join sessions. Navigating to this section will breakdown which online games are joinable across compatible platforms.

Select Play from the main menu.

Press RB to access to Friends tab on Xbox One. Press
R to access to Friends tab on Nintendo Switch.

Select an active game to join.

On Xbox One, games will be split between joinable friends and joinable Realms. On Nintendo Switch, games are sorted by Nintendo Switch friends, Xbox Live cross-platform friends, and joinable Realms.

Does it help ?