My controler will turn on my system but once the system is on my controler wont do...

My elite controller is up to date and thats the one I have been using. If i plug my controller in by usb the system will turn on just like if i was to touch the xbox one logo on the system. really anoying this is. What would cause my system to go into such
a deep sleep in instant on that my controller wont wake the system up. If i turn the system on by hand in the morning i can use the controller all day but when i dont use the console four like 12 hours then the controller wont wake the system up. On energy
saving mode the controller can wake the system up every time but boot times are to long. I like instant on. Just want the controller to always work to turn it on.

Hi there! My name is Darhyl and I’d be more than happy to help you with your query.

I'm sorry you are experiencing this with your Xbox controller. No worries, let me help you sort this out.

It's important to note that this is a public user-to-user community forum, and none of us here work for Microsoft.

Kindly try to update the controller's firmware using a Windows PC to see if it works. Here's how:

Update your controller on Windows 10/11 by using the Xbox Accessories app:

If you don’t already have the app installed, get it in the Store:

https://apps.microsoft.com/detail/9NBLGGH30XJ3?hl=en-us&gl=SA

Open the Xbox Accessories app.
Connect your Xbox Wireless Controller by using a USB cable or the Xbox Wireless Adapter for Windows.
When the controller is connected, you'll see the message Update Required if an update is mandatory. Install the update.

Things to keep in mind:

The Xbox Accessories app is available only on Windows 10/11.
Updating the controller over Bluetooth is not supported.

After the update, connect your controller using a USB cable and turn on your console to see if it works.

Please take your time and let me know if it works.

Best Regards,
Darhyl

Update: Turns out vibration is turned ON for my system, but the controllers don't vibrate.

So I guess the issue is really that when any controller is connected to my system, when it's supposed to vibrate, it turns off.

I noticed if I power my system down and power the system up by turning on my controller first I dont seem to have this issue. If i use Xbox on it wont allow the headset mic to boot up. It is some kind of bug. I would imagine that when the hardware starts
to detect the different logic coded on the controllers that for some reason it times out when trying to boot up that operation. If the controller is the primary method of turning on your system then you shouldn't have any issue. Let me know if this helps!

I noticed if I power my system down and power the system up by turning on my controller first I dont seem to have this issue. If i use Xbox on it wont allow the headset mic to boot up. It is some kind of bug. I would imagine that when the hardware starts
to detect the different logic coded on the controllers that for some reason it times out when trying to boot up that operation. If the controller is the primary method of turning on your system then you shouldn't have any issue. Let me know if this helps!