My account is gone

i want to know why no one is answerig me or trying to help me. i paid to have this and i cant use it. all i want is some answers as to why i cant access my account

Sorry but no one here can help as we don't have access to that info.

The only place to get an answer is in the ban/suspension forums
forums.xbox.com/.../41.aspx

If your post didn't appear there then you've probably been answered via a pm.

An email would of been sent to the address linked to your account explaining the ban as well.

It's not really a violation to allow easy access to your account. It is however someones responsibility though, so if someone else does something that results in an enforcement action you can't blame the other person.

I did fill out the form already but I honestly don’t know what question I’m getting wrong. This account was made almost 10 years ago and I can’t remember the password to get into the email attached to the account, and can’t remember the contact phone number. I struggled with addiction for a long time and a lot of my memory is not what it used to be. Those are pretty much the only questions I could be getting wrong. I know the password to get into my Microsoft account but when I tried to change it when all of this was going down I had to change my contact phone number so I could get a verification text but it said it wouldn’t be updated till next month.

Try to recover the gametag from you dashboard.
Here are the steps to do it.