Minecraft Privacy settings

Hi there! This is Ronnie, your fellow Xbox gamer.

Nice to meet you and I hope you are having a great day!

I understand you need help with your Privacy settings.

Please check if you can access them here:

https://account.xbox.com/en-us/Settings?rtc=1&a...

Please check if all your Privacy & Online safety settings are set to Allow/Everybody.

Make sure you also toggle on the settings to be sure (Set to friends then back to Everybody) and submit changes.

Hello

Just to confirm you've done this through the parent profile in charge of the family account? If you don't know how to set up a family account the link explaining how to do that is here

And you've done all this as well?

Go to account.xbox.com website. Log in under your account.

Go to "privacy & online safety" page.

on the page you should see your profile and your child(s).

click on the child profile pic, it should be green now.

click the "Xbox One Online Safety" tab.

Allow everything but "buy and download".

Click save at the bottom!

click the "Xbox 360 Online Safety" tab.

allow the first 2 "Accept Friend Requests" and "Online Gameplay".

make sure you click save.

meeeeeeee!!!! Every time I try to join a server, it says above the servers area that "you need to check your privacy settings" but I do that everyday because XBox doesn't notice that we never wanted it to
bond with Minecraft in the first place.

Have you tried doing a hard reset/power cycle on your console.

Press and hold the Xbox logo on the front of the console until it switches off, waiting atleast 30 seconds before switching it on again.

Are there any in-game settings that restrict joining realms?