Minecraft can not join server

Was it in a regular server or a realm? realms you have to pay for.

To allow a child account to access apps and games online, you may check the restriction settings for Windows 10 and Xbox One at the link I've provided. I hope it's of some help

Set content restrictions on Windows 10 and Xbox One

I found where the update is for windows store and make sure its always update, every time we try joining each other just says some thing a long the lines of “cannot join server” or some thing like that.

its weird that it was fine before. Do i need to buy it again for the xbox maybe?

Hey there, Mr Blue Playdoh

Please can you tell me what error message you get when trying to join each other?

You may need to see if there is an update for the game. To do this on Windows, please go to the
Windows store > Click onto the ellipsis icon ( ... ) near your account picture > Select
Downloads & Updates from the list.

This will allow you to see any updates for any app you have downloaded on your PC/Device.

For the Xbox, it should do this automatically. However, to check, please go to My Games and Apps.

Hope this helps,

Regards,

Thanks for the replies, yes we are on open NAT as both on the same network.

also like i said it was fine before.

we are playing on a normal server where you can just build any thing you like.

will check the age restriction now but like i said was fine before.