Microsoft will not allow me to link Microsoft account to Minecraft (PlayStation)

You would have to contact Sony, as linking happens on their servers

Sony allows a one time only linking of a microsoft account, once one is linked you may never do it again. This is their policy and you will have to ask them to change it

Hi. May you kindly try using a different device to link your account. You can use a Mobile device or PC, also try using different browsers. I hope this helps resolve your query.

Doing this sends me in circles as contacting Xbox support says they can't do anything and redirect me to minecrafts support site and they say the same thing and send me to playstation support and in turn they send me back to Microsoft support its ridiculous

There is nothing that can be done from Minecrafts or Microsofts side since the account linking is started on Playstations end.

Only they can help. They are the ones who dont allow other Microsoft accounts to be linked once one was already linked.

Hello, Nina S. I’m Arturo, and I’ll be glad to provide assistance with your inquiry today.

I’m afraid to say, but according to the official Minecraft article I’m going to share below, “Once a Microsoft account has been linked to a PlayStation® account, neither the Microsoft account nor the PlayStation™ Network account can be associated with a different account.” and in addition to that, “As of March 15, 2023, please DO NOT unlink your MSA from your PlayStation account via the in-game menu. You will be unable to link it back if you do so.”

Reference link:
https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/articles/360037725571-Minecraft-for-PlayStation-FAQ

I know this is not the kind of answer you were expecting, but Minecraft doesn’t allow us to link a different Microsoft account once we choose to link accounts.

Thanks for taking the time to read me,

Arturo.

Unfortunately, Sony does not allow you to change the connected accounts. Once a Microsoft account and a Playstation account have been linked, that's it. You can unlink them but you can never link that Playstation account to another Microsoft account and that Microsoft account cannot be linked to a different Playstation account. This is all Sony's decision. The linking is handled on their end so there is nothing that Microsoft can do about it.