Linking Friends on Xbox 360?

It sounds as if the person you are trying to send a Friends Request has their Privacy Settings set to not allow any Messages from anyone. They will need to correct that from their end or they will need to send the Friends Request
to your Profile.

When me and the operator changed the settings the problem persisted But i think some time me in the future i will buy a xbox one

Hi Zakari williams,

Welcome to the Xbox Community Forum. Thank you for sharing your concern with us today, and we hope that all is well.

I'm sorry if you are having issues adding your friend on Xbox 360. Based on the image you posted, you are getting this error due to safety restrictions from the Organizer or the Family. Hence you are requested for the organizer to login with her account.

If you had forgotten the password of the Organizers account you may follow the link below to recover it

Reset a forgotten Microsoft account password - Microsoft Support

Once password is changed you can have the organizer login or remove the restrictions for you

Manage a member’s content in the Xbox Family Settings app | Xbox Support

Adjust Online Communication Level

Organizers in the family group can view or change how members can communicate with other players while they’re online. Organizers can also customize whether members can follow other gamers.

1. Open the Xbox Family Settings app on your mobile device, and then go to Settings.
   
2. Select the Social tile to view or change how members can communicate with other players while they’re online. Organizers can also customize whether members can follow other gamers.
   

Note Some games allow for cross-network communication with players outside of the Xbox service. To adjust these settings, select the Cross-network play tile, and then select the communication level for the member in your family group.

To learn more about online safety settings for messaging, see:

Safety settings for Xbox messages

Xbox 360 Friends list may appear on you Xbox App if added via Xbox 360

And if friends are added vis Xbox App they will not appear via the Xbox 360

So, you need to add them Via the Xbox 360.

This goes the same thing as the Xbox One and Xbox 360 friends

Viewing your Xbox One friends on your Xbox 360 friends list | Xbox Support

We're looking forward to hearing from you. If there are any inquiries about our description or if there are any misconceptions, do reply to the post.

Hello!

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Thank you for understanding.

If you are having issue's adding friends on the Xbox 360 please check out the link below, it should help you.

support.xbox.com/.../chat-managing-friends

Also make sure you have finished filling out you're account info!