Invitations not staying

Dear
holden107,

Goto Setting>Preferences>Notifications>Notification TIming

There you can choose the the amount of time.

Happy gaming.

Hi Holden,

Thank you for coming to the Xbox forums, I'd be happy to answer that.

This is actually a normal feature for party/game invites where they expire after a set amount of time. I've seen this happen many times if at times I want to play solo and forget to put my status offline, I'll get some party or game invites and generally
will ignore it until I switch my status and every time the invitation expires when I open up the menu, unless I open the menu shortly after missing the notification then it's there. I think it also depends on whether the invitation is still available for you
to join, for example if let's say the person who invited you starts a new multiplayer lobby or party chat lobby, then the invitation will expire as this will require a new invitation since the previous invitation was to the previous lobby that is no longer
open.

If the invitation is expiring almost immediately after opening the menu when you miss the notification, then that is not normal. It usually takes some time to expire or until the person who invites you starts the game or opens up any new lobbies.

Let us know with more information how long it takes for the invitation to disappear and if the person inviting you is making any new lobbies.

Delete them and resend your invite to friend. As long as they do not add you as friend you will stay followers.

also you need to stay away from people promising invites as well because they lie just to get ratings on youtube and twitch

The block option will only prevent him to contact you (messages, invites, see your stuff), besides this he will stay in your followers list.