I want to find someone email on Xbox to email them if I can have there gamer tag.

No as that sort of info is strictly private & can't be given out.

Just because this person may not have signed into xbox live for a certain amount of time does not mean they are not using that gamertag/account on another Microsoft service.

Your only options are to pick another gamertag or just keep checking on the off chance that the tag you want is freed up at some point.

no one else can have the same gamer tag as you so there is no way for them to have suspended someone else with the same gamer tag.

you may want to double check the email address that is associated with your gamer tag that is the email address that they would have sent the email to.

if you are on a xbox one you can check what email is associated with your account by signing into the account and going to settings and under the account tab and go to sign in security and passkey and it will tell you there what email is associated with
that particular gamertag.

Each account has it's own unique email address and gamer tag. So the gamer tag you're seeing doesn't belong to someone else, it belongs to the account you signed in with.

Since you're not seeing the gamer tag you're expecting, then that means you need to sign into your account with the correct email address.

If you initially created your account on the Xbox console, that email address is usually an outlook.com email.

If you know the gamer tag but not the sign in email address, you can contact Xbox Support and give them the gamer tag. You'll need to know the exact spelling (letters, numbers and spaces). And if they find the account in the system, they will send out a security
code to what you have setup on the account for phone/email. When you get that code, that will help them unlock the info on their screen and that will allow them to provide you with the sign in email address for that account.

Without that security code, they won't be able to unlock that account info on their screen.

You can contact Xbox Support here -
https://support.xbox.com/contact-us

If you're in the states you can call them at 800-469-9269

Also, i cant delete the gamer tag that is on THIS email adress if that makes a difference. Ideally id just delete this xbox live gamer tag and then change the email from my real account to this email. but I also cant find a way to delete a gamer tag/xbox
live account

Good evening,

Just to make sure we are clear

1) Old email with gamer tag I want

2) Current email with gamer tag I don’t want

I want to move the gamer tag I want from the old email address to my current email address. If possible, to delete my new gamer tag I don’t want

Is the steps you mentioned still correct?