I need my Xbox live account back and update

Hello, Victoria A. I'm Arturo, a community user like you, and I'll be glad to provide assistance with your inquiry today.

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Arturo.

Yes, I have Xbox Live and Xbox Gold. The error message says my account needs to be verified or update my Xbox account. I do not know how to do that.

My Xbox live account isn't letting me sign in, if I delete it do I need to the code for live or will it still be there when I sign it back in?

I need to be back on. Xbox live account now.

I understand that I need to download updates to Xbox Live to successfully sign in to Live. I just wanted to know if there was a way to restrict the updating process to just my account. That way when my son signs in and it wants to do an update he is denied
Xbox Live for a few hours until I can get home and do the update myself. Think of it like a temporary ban from Live until someone "responsible" is around to do the update. Based on your initial comment I assume this type of functionality is not available.
It might be something you want to consider for a future update. Basically have a "master" account that has admin privilages and then "basic" accounts that get temporarly banned from Live until the update is applied by the "master" account.