I got suspended for saying the word “****” really xbox?

The code of conduct doesn't list specific words. If the words or wording you use falls into one of the categories the code does list, it can get you suspended.

If you have questions regarding Xbox enforcement this is a good resource.

https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US

Hello Travis,

Thanks for reaching out! In response to your concern, the community continues to grow the Xbox Live Policy & Enforcement Team remains committed to preserving and promoting a safe, secure and enjoyable experience for all of our members across
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Take a look at Microsoft’s Code of Conduct Explained for Xbox Live Customers.

For more information about what each type of enforcement means, visit
Xbox Live Suspensions. Seeing as this is a concern that involves enforcement
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Hope this helps.

As you stated, the word violates the code of conduct so that's why you got suspended.

I know how you feel, i got banned and didnt have a mic??????????? This reporting system is fgtrfdeerg if you know what i mean. xb should really get sorted as i am getting angry for getting banned for beating players and getting banned, and then the case
review is not done as quick as the ban?????? WHY!!!!!!!!