i forgot the family pass code and the backup pen what should i do

Contact support and they will help you reset it. 1-800-4my-xbox if you're in the US/Canada or http://support.xbox.com/contact-us

i tried a lot but i miss the 2 step and i forgot the password

If you dont have your 2 step verification backup codes then unfortunately your account won't be recoverable.

When you lose access to getting 2FA codes the backup codes are your absolute last resort for regaining access to your account.

I know this isnt what you wanted to hear but even support cannot assist if you dont have the backup codes.

i have family code amd forgot what it is how i take it off

Hey there PryingDuke818! We on the forums aren't able to send you your password. If you aren't able to remember it you'll need to go through the steps to
reset your password! If you have any further questions feel free to make a new forum thread of your own as I'm going to lock this thread.

hi,i forgot my "pass code",can u email me at [REMOVED - DO NOT POST EMAIL OR MICROSOFT ACCOUNT] ,my profile for xbox live is pryingduke818,thanks