I don't know how to reset my password.

Hi,Kaleb, I'm Luis a Xbox user just like you. Thanks for reaching out us here.

In these type of cases, the only way to sort this out then is by going to the log in page with a secondary email and once there select “forgot password.” Choosing the “forgot password” option will send you the link to a form . You will need to fill it out and wait for Microsoft to contact you and try to help regain access to theaccount,

Here are the detailed instructions and tips to fill the form

https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/account-bil...

Hi, I hope you're doing great out there. I am an Independent advisor and I am here to help you in regard to your concern.

If you don't have an Xbox console we can try other methods such as checking your other devices (Laptop, PC, or mobile device) where you may have signed in before.

Please check all Microsoft accounts that you own and sign in to https://account.xbox.com/profile to locate the correct Microsoft account because according to Xbox support:

"Important Xbox Support can't provide this info, even if you know your gamertag."

You would need to contact support and they can help you reset it.
http://support.xbox.com/contact-us

You should not post your number on a public forum.

The problem is that account is completely dead. We don't even know how to login and can't reset the password because there were no validations put in for resetting password when it was set up.

My errors? They manipulated the password reset from another email or phone to get into my account. then deleted all of my contact information so I don't know how I am at fault.