I can't connect my EA account with my Xbox account

Done. It didn't work either. My birthday in both account is the same

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This is the exact same situation I am in. EA says my Xbox account is linked with a deleted EA profile. If I try to sign in with my Xbox account I get stuck in a password reset loop.

From my chat with EA support:

"Thanks for the information, your Xbox is linked with a Deleted account. "

"If you want to unlink it kindly have access to the email id linked with that account. "

"As the account is deleted I can not see the email. "

"In that case I can't do anything as your X box is connected to the deleted account. "

EA support is useless and Microsoft can't directly do anything since the linking is handled on EA's side.

I recovered my account on my uncles xbox and when I recovered it back on mine I can't connect to EA!! Iv been playing sims n it doesn't connect and NOW I just downloaded the battle field 3 beta and I can't play bcoz it doesn't connect to EA!! Is there away
of changing my EA account to a different one because iv just made a new one n I don't know how to make that ma new one to sign into when I play sims or any other EA games ... HELP!!

I have exactly the same problem. I don't even know what EA account has been linked to my Xbox account. I can't even tell you if it's mine. I've been gaming online since the 90s and I suspect at some point EA have acquired a game title for which I have an account and it's been linked to my Xbox account.

EA tell me the account is "deleted" but won't remove the Xbox link. It's a ridiculous situation and I can't link Xbox to my real EA account while the current link exists. The link between Xbox and EA should be a 2-way agreement where it can be severed from either side. I've been on to EA reps for 5 hours. They really are awful.

As it stands I can't ever play EA games through Game Pass and I'm cancelling my membership until there is a better solution in place.