how to turn off family setting without going into an adult account

Add your under age child to a Microsoft Family that you are the administrator.

When he plays a game or app that asks for permission, you allow access by entering your password.

BTW you'll need a Microsoft account if you don't already have one. I assume you do since you are posting here.

How to set up a Xbox Family

Once they're added you need to
edit their permissions. one of which is playing online.

It's not too difficult. I've done this for my 2 kids.

From your Xbox One console
Change privacy and safety settings for you or a child

1. Sign in to your Xbox. (If you’re changing the settings for a child, sign in using an adult’s account.)
2. Scroll left on the Home screen to open the guide.
3. Select Settings > All Settings.
   For your account:
   1. Under Privacy & online safety, select Xbox Live privacy.
   2. Choose a default, or customize your settings by selecting View details & customize.
   For a child’s account:
   1. UnderAccount, select Family.
   2. Enter your password or passkey, and then select the account you want to update.
   3. Select Privacy & online safety, and then choose the default settings, or customize by selecting
      View details & customize.

this is in the MSN video app. Okay so i can have family settings turned off with an adult account and they are blocked yet on my 5 year old sons app with family settings on and i remove all restrictions i can watch them. How Odd????

No man im 30 years old have an adult account. ive managed to work it but it asks for my family settings pascode every time even with family settings turned off.

Also just noticed my youtube saftey mode is set to strict how do i change that?

Please try to go to
https://account.xbox.com/settings and check your online and privacy settings.

If you just get a page that explains how to set up a child account, then you need an adult with an adult Microsoft Account.

The adult has to go to
https://account.microsoft.com/family and add your child account to their family.

Then the adult goes to https://account.xbox.com/settings and selects your child profile. Then they have to set your online and privacy settings to allow you to talk in multiplayer
and to play multiplayer.

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No man im 30 years old have an adult account. ive managed to work it but it asks for my family settings pascode every time even with family settings turned off.

Also just noticed my youtube saftey mode is set to strict how do i change that?

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click were it says safety mode, then highlight off!