how do I recover deleted chats

Hi Cupcakekiller, I hope you're doing great out there despite the issue that you're experiencing. I am an Independent advisor and I am here to help you in regards to your concern.

I apologize but that's not possible. There is no option or feature to recover deleted Xbox chats.

Unfortunately, it's not possible to recover a deleted chat.

Hello, My name is Jesse. I'm an Independent Advisor and a member of the Microsoft community and I'd love to assist you today.

To retrieve a lost save from the cloud, Go to My games & apps.

- Highlight the game.

- Press the Menu button and select Manage game and add-ons.

- Go to saved Data and clear local saves.

- Then, Select the game tile, and then choose Select all to make sure all available content gets installed.

- Select Save changes and wait for the content to install.

- Relaunch the game.

If that doesn't work then I'm afraid the chats are gone for good.

The OP is asking about lost chat messages, not lost game saves

If you deleted your message on xbox, there is no way to recover it.