How do I get in contact with the Xbox Enforcement Team?

you aren't allowed to retaliate in anyway that violates the terms of use regardless of who starts the fight

You are only allowed to block mute and report

You can file a case review at https://enforcement.xbox.com

But it's pretty straight forward

You can file a case review but if he violated the code of conduct, then the account is subject to a suspension.

If he's going to be saying a lot of words that violate the code of conduct, you may want to disable the voice chat.

1) For account suspensions or bans sign in at this site with your account at
https://enforcement.xbox.com

2) No one here on the Xbox Forums or at Xbox Support can provide the reason or proof why you were banned.

3) No one here on the Xbox Forums or at Xbox Support can change the state of ANY suspension or ban.

4) Only an actual person from the Xbox Live Enforcement Team can impose or remove a suspension or ban on the account.

- "Despite what some may claim, Xbox Live Policy & Enforcement Team will never ever ban anyone “for no reason”. Suspensions always occur as a result of a specific Code of Conduct violation."

https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US/Home/HowTo#sub-topic0-5

5) A suspension or ban on the account is imposed when there has been a violation of the Code of Conduct or Terms of Use.

- Note: If the violation was significant, the account may face consecutive suspensions and the device could be suspended as well.

Code of Conduct -
https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US/home/codeofconduct

Xbox.com Terms of Use -
https://www.xbox.com/en-US/Legal/XboxComTOU?xr=footnav

6) If you want to contact the Xbox Live Policy & Enforcement Team you can file a Case Review

- You can't file a Case Review if the suspension is less than 24 hours or you failed the questionnaire.

- Note: Currently, Xbox device bans are not eligible for Case Review.

Case Review -
https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US/Home/HowTo#sub-topic0-6

7) If someone is making offensive remarks to you, do not reply back to them. Report and block them.

- If you're in a party chat and offensive remarks are being made. Your account may receive a suspension just for being in that party if the party is reported.

Submit a report on Xbox One -
https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US/Home/HowTo#sub-topic2-0

8) It's your account and you're responsible for it. If you let a friend use your account and they violate they Code of Conduct or Terms of Use with your account, then it's your account that will be penalized.

Submitting a case review is the only way to contact the enforcement team. If they upheld their decision, there is nothing else you can do.

The enforcement action must be open currently. It can't be for a past/closed enforcement action.

Hello, first it's a pleasure to be able to help you today.

My name is welcome to the community.

Hello BAD6661313, I'm sorry for what happened regarding your account, we would like to set your expectation about this situation.

Enforcement is a department apart from this Community and Xbox service, is not possible for us to access to your account and Enforcement details to check or handle with your ban or suspension.

As this forum is public viewing and unfortunately as independent consultants we do not have access there is some data or your account, we cannot specify the actual reason or verify precisely what the reason for your suspension or ban or remove your ban or suspension.

Below I leave links that can inform better about the Enforcement

Types of Xbox enforcement actions

https://support.xbox.com/en-us/help/family-onli...

Xbox device suspensions and bans

https://support.xbox.com/en-us/help/family-onli...