How do I fix my realm?

It may mean that it's with your in-game account. Let's try performing an extended powercycle and reset your network hardware on your Xbox by following the steps below then try to reload the game.

" 1. Unplug the power cable from the back of the router, modem, or gateway for 5 minutes. If you have a router and a modem, unplug the power cable from both devices.

2. Press and hold the Xbox button on your console for 10 seconds or until it turns off then wait for 2 minutes before turning it on again.

3. After 5 minutes, plug the modem or gateway in first, and wait for all the lights to return to their normal state.

4. If you are using a router, plug in the router and wait for all the lights to return to their normal state."

Thanks to whoever fixed the issue without socializing I was putting off cause of my social anxiety!!

I'm playing on Xbox One currently, I tried accessing it on my laptop and had the same issue.

Thank you so much for testing it all out. In this case, it would be best to reach out to Mojang so they can check your in-game account as well as guide you with the next steps available.

Here you go: https://support.xbox.com/en-US/help/games-apps/...

Ah I tried using a hotspot and it didn't work then either, I don't think it's on my end.