how do i contact the xbox enforcement action

You would have to try submitting a case review at http://enforcement.xbox.com

There appears to be an issue that has been happening lately. It appears that if an enforcement action was extended then there may be no additional notification and the enforcement site does not reflect this extension. The only way
to currently find out if an enforcement action was extended is to contact Xbox support.

1-800-4my-xbox if you're in the US/Canada or
http://support.xbox.com/contact-us They cannot assist with enforcement, but they can tell you if you still have an active enforcement action not showing on the website.

Hello, I am from Italy... I'll try to find the number for the Itlian support and call them. I will post directly here if I need more help. By the way, I am shocked by how the enforcement team states in his homepage how they are accountable for what they
do, but still they do not have some sort of way to contact them. UNBELIEVABLE.

Sorry, but no one here on the forums can address issues dealing with enforcement actions. Also The Enforcement team does not monitor the forums.

You will need to visit Xbox's enforcement page to find out any information about your current case.

Here are some links that might be useful for future reference.

Link 1:
https://enforcement.xbox.com

Link 2: https://enforcement.xbox.com/en-US/home/howto#sub-topic0-5

Link 3: http://support.xbox.com/en-US/xbox-one/xbox-live/enforcement-on-xbox-live

Link 4:
https://enforcement.xbox.com/Enforcement/ShowEnforcements


Link 5:
http://enforcement.xbox.com/home/staysafe#topic0

Link 6:
http://enforcement.xbox.com/home/howto#sub-topic0-6

it would nice if i could find the link /s to talk to someone about this issue

If you submitted a case review and they upheld their decision, there is nothing else you can do.