Friends list automatically selecting first friend. Can't back out.

Don't worry, read this post.

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Hello Dsgruntld A! I'm Kris and I'd be happy to help you with your question.

Sorry to hear you are having issues adding a friend. It might be worth asking your friend to get someone to try and add him as it could be his account causing the issues. If you can add others then your account sounds fine. It could be something has changed on his account.

Added note: Will not show friends list or allow to connect to party. "Can't show friends list" and "party unavailable, please come back later"

If you know a friend’s gamertag, on Start , swipe over to the All apps list, select Xbox , and then select Friends & clubs at the top. Type your friend’s gamertag in the search box and select Search . Select Add
friend to add them as a friend on Xbox.



You can't have too many friends

We’ll also offer a few friend suggestions under the search box. Suggestions can include people you might already know on Xbox, or fellow gamers who make popular clips or broadcasts about games you like. To add a suggested friend to your list, select their
gamertag and then select Add friend.

Can you explain further what you mean?

From what I'm understanding you want your friends profile as a favourite and have your friends list show first? When you open your friends list from the guide, underneath "Find someone" you can choose what to displays first. Then select your friends profile
and "Change friendship" to "Favourite"