Friend requests pending even though they have accepted - PAINFUL

They've accepted the request, but it still says it's pending, we can still send things to each other but i can't invite them to games or see their activity cause it still says that the friend request is still pending even though on their xbox one it says that im their friend - but thanks for looking into my problem

I have 360 and my friend habe One, he acept the friend requests but in my console still show pending, also whem he send me the request my consol show nothing, thats the issue. But when i send the request he accept and show me in his consol as a friend even
when in mine still show as pending.

Hello. what type of console does your friend have? Also, when you send a friend request to someone, it shows as pending until he accepts or declines the request.

I have 3 friends automatically off my list :/ I resend a friend request to my closest friend on xbox 360. He said he accepted it but I saw a message that says "friend request pending". I Don't get it!

Do you have his account setup with those restrictions? It says "pending" because it's waiting for your child to accept the request. I know for my daughters account, if she is on the 360 and tries to accept a friend request, I have to authorize it right
there by entering my password.