Friend can’t join Realm due to Privacy Settings Issues

I
have followed the instructions given and have gotten to here. The problem is I keep looping back to the main profile menu as I follow the instructions.

Hello WR),

Thank you for posting on the Xbox forums. We understand that you are interested in learning where one can change the privacy settings for a Microsoft account. We have a support article that provides troubleshooting for

changing your online safety and privacy settings. The section of the article your friend wants to use is the one that explains how to complete this process on the Xbox website. Go ahead and forward this information to your friend, and be sure to let us
know the results WR)!

To change the Minecraft Realm privacy for everyone, follow these steps:

Sign in to your Xbox account.
Open the Xbox app and select “Minecraft.”
Select “Settings” and then “Privacy and security.”
Select “Change online privacy and security settings.”
Select “Everyone” to allow anyone to join your Realm, or select “Friends” to allow only your friends to join.
Save the changes.

How do I change privacy settings, I can’t friend people on minecraft pocket edition and I can’t play online or on realms, what do I do?

Please fix my privacy and online safety settings in minecraft pe so I can play with my friends

Hello, My name is David. I am an independent advisor, happy to help you today.

If it asks you for a game pass to join your friends in Minecraft, it may be because the kingdom owner has changed the kingdom's privacy settings. If the realm owner has set the privacy settings to “Friends Only,” only players who have an Xbox Game Pass membership will be able to join the realm.

If you're not sure if the kingdom owner has changed their privacy settings, you can ask them directly. If you don't have an Xbox Game Pass membership and want to join the realm, you'll need to purchase a membership or ask the realm owner to change your privacy settings.

I hope this helps.

Best regards.