Family Member can't play online with his friend...has to use my profile?

Hi there,

If your profile and his are not both in the same family pack then there is no way to transfer those points to the other profile, if both profiles are in the same family pack and your account is the primary account of the family pack you can give other profiles
allowence.

A family pack is a gold subscription for up to four family members (profiles) for a discounted price. The subscription gives access to online game play and certain apps.

I believe that to add a member to the Family they need to have an Xbox Live profile.

support.xbox.com/.../add-family-member

However, you could then change the parental controls to restrict what your son could do - eg, not allow him to play online, not able to accept friend requests or to communicate with people other than friends.

support.xbox.com/.../xbox-one-manage-privacy-and-online-safety

Ideally you want to setup a second profile for him, yes you will lose any achievements and friends he has made, but you can use your profile as the admin by following these simple steps

https://beta.support.xbox.com/help/Family-Online-Safety/child-accounts/add-family-member-on-xbox-one

gold is shared as long as you set his xbox as the home xbox for your gamertag. You can even limit access to make purchases and anything else. However you can readd his friends on his new account easily enough, just achievements won’t carry over.

I believe if he is wanting to play online, he will need to have gold on his gamertag. Each family member will need gold to use their gamertags or unless they play on the gamertag that has gold already.

There's o reason why you can't create him his own account/profile on the Xbox One.

There's some info on using the family features here
support.xbox.com/.../add-family-member-on-xbox-one