Controller not pairing(

Press the pairing button on your controller: On your controller, there is a pairing button (usually on the bottom of the controller, near the Xbox button). Press and hold this button until the LED on your controller starts blinking.

Wait for it to pair: The LED on your controller should stop blinking and turn one of four colors, indicating that the pairing was successful.

Hi there Movarias67,

I thought i'd chime in as you hadn't received a response yet.

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I am afraid I do not know of any sure-fire way to make a console 'forget' a controller, but from my experience it doesn't matter.

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My Fiancee and I have an Xbox360 each, and they are set up next to each other so that I can play on the 'main' TV, while she plays on a smaller TV with headphones.

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We have a bunch of controllers for when our friends come over at weekends, and we will play on my console to utilise the bigger TV. When we do that, she usually wants to use her own (Pink) controller.

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The result is that we will sync her controller with my console while people are round, and then she will resync it back with her own console afterwards.

We have never had any negative effects from this, never had any scrambled signals or both consoles being affected at the same time etc.

...and I would stress, the consoles are less than 2 feet apart.

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So I really don't think you have anything to worry about, and you should be able to sync the old controller with the new console without any negative effects.

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Hope that helps!

Thanks for the reply, but I have already tried these methods. It's strange because it pairs up fine to my sons console

Have you tried pairing using both the wired and wireless method? I have copied the details to both below.

Connect wirelessly

1. Turn on your Xbox One.
2. Insert AA batteries (or rechargeable batteries from the Xbox One Play & Charge Kit) into the controller.
3. Turn on your controller by pressing the Xbox button , located in the middle of the controller near the top. The Xbox button will flash. When the button stays lit, the controller is connected.
4. Press the bind button on your Xbox.
5. Press and hold the controller's bind button (a circular button on top of the controller as you hold it in your hands) until the controller's Xbox button flashes a few times (that means it's searching
   for a console). The Xboxbutton  stays lit once it's connected.

Connect using a USB cable
Depending on the type of controller you have, plug the micro-USB or USB-C cable into the power port on the back of the controller then plug the other end of the cable into your Xbox.

Thanks HooksaN I really appreciate it I will give it a try. I know when I had let my roommate use one of my controllers and finally got his fixed, when I would use it, it would turn his Xbox in his room on as well as mine since it had already been paired
with mine before hand. I'll give the re-pair a try. Thanks again!!!