CoC, Enforcement, Censorship, Context, Not Understanding Your Audience (Feedback)

Playstation considers themselves a free speech platform, Microsoft around Xbox One's release updated their CoC so that they are not and Phil Spencer has stated himself "Xbox is not a free speech platform"

Now it says that banter and cursing is allowed yet their definition seems to be undefined or extremely flexible because things I would consider banter have gotten me punished so have curse words with no negative implications or insults associated with
them. Anytime I engage with a player on a competitive game where things get heated I feel like I'm walking on egg shells because context does not matter and the simplest of things can get you suspended. They will not use previous messages as reference it will
only be taken out of context.

Playstation understands gamers (the demographic they're appealing too) go watch any YouTube video of people using game chat on games like rainbow six siege, call of duty, etc and it is just curse word and insult after another. This is just how most gamers
act on these type of games and these types of games are EXTREMELY popular. Xbox is suspending people for normal discourse, they are so out of touch with their demographic it is unbelieveable that they are still staying afloat. What gamers are happy with Xbox
being very strict on communication? Playstation who is very lenient on what you can say is outselling Xbox 2:1 so they should take a page out of the playbook of their superiors and start doing better because I expect better.

They have no idea what kind of experience they're creating when sending a message creates pressure and stress. They set a really high bar on Xbox 360 and I don't see them ever doing that again if they don't even know what gamers want. This is why this
is my last generation on Xbox, it's been a hell of a ride. I've been an xbox Ambassador since the programs inception (removed due to suspensions) 100k+ gamerscore, 15 years, and they lost me. You have to mess up big time to make a die hard fan like me quit.
I'm taking my 3 best friends with me as well.

My discord server with 3,000 people also agreed to get a playstation this next gen with me. Most of them shared similar stories of ridiculous suspensions they received. And this isn't just a hate post, I sincerely hope Xbox takes this feedback to heart
and makes a change if they see it.

TL;DR: If you're a fanboy feel free to blindly defend Xbox instead of helping them improve I already expect it. You won't hurt my feelings because I have the maturity to not need Microsoft to suspend and censor everything I don't like.

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