Child account added to family, but not visible in Privacy settings

I have added the child in the Microsoft family, but it still doesn't apper in the Xbox Privacy settings on my account

That's correct as they are child accounts and you mentioned they haven't been added to the family, in the account that manage to enter the privacy settings leave the current family even if there no one else in that family, after this log out of the family site and restart the browser

Once done with that create the family again, with that account being the organizer, and add the child accounts, remember that child accounts can't be organizer they must be added as childs, and check each account on the family site prior to this to verify that they aren't linked to other families

Hi there, Wiki Kar!

Is it possible that your account is a Child account, by chance? If your account is a Child account, then you would need to have your account added to an

Xbox Live Family and then have an adult account to
adjust the privacy settings for the Child account.

Hello!

Is it possible that the account that you're trying to change the settings on could be a child account? If that is the case then you would need to long onto an adult account and add the child account to its family to be able to adjust the settings for the
child account. Take a look at this support article regarding adding a child account to a family.:

How to add a child to a family account. Then also take a look here to learn about adjusting the settings themselves:Xbox One online safety
and privacy settings for parents and children

Hope this helps!

Let us know with a reply.

Hi
bartusevüktekin,

Thank you for letting us know you play on Windows 10. First, you'll need to find out if your Xbox profile was created with a birthdate that would register the profile as a child account. See whether you're listed as a child or an adult in a family group
by signing in at account.microsoft.com/family. Then, go to account.xbox.com and select Profile from the top banner, then on the next page select Privacy Settings. If it takes you to this support article "Change
your child’s Xbox privacy and online safety settings" then your account is more than likely added to a Family group as a child account and you will need the parent account to change the child account's privacy settings from account.microsoft.com/family
in order to play online.