Cant play multiplayer on minecraft due to privacy settings

Alrighty, kindly save your account information first before resetting your Xbox so you can easily download it again after the reset. To do this, let's scroll left on the Home screen to open the guide and select Settings, then Select All Settings. On the Settings page, let's select System, then Select Console info and lastly, select Reset console. On the Reset your console screen, we'll see three options and we'll select the Reset and keep my games & apps.

After doing this it still isnt working

Only in Minecraft? You can try to refresh your operating system and delete all potentially corrupted data that restricts you from using your console normally without deleting your games or apps. Just a heads-up, doing this will erase the profiles on the console including Home Xbox designation but will not remove any installed games & apps on your console. You can download your profile back after the reset.

Did all of that just now and its still not working

Hello, OF. I appreciate you trying the steps. If you can normally play other games in Multiplayer then that confirms there are no issues with your profile settings. Since all of your online features are enabled, and this issue only happens in Minecraft, I suggest you contact the game support for further troubleshooting. You can send them a screenshot showing that everything is enabled, and that this issue only happens in Minecraft.

Mojang: https://help.minecraft.net/hc/en-us/requests/new

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