Can't play Minecraft multiplayer even though I am 18 and the only one in my Microsoft family

Discus and support Can't play Minecraft multiplayer even though I am 18 and the only one in my Microsoft family in XBoX Accessibility to solve the problem; Yo, For context: Back in 2020 I was running a server with a couple of friends, and after I updated the game and server to 1.17, I was unable to enter... Discussion in 'XBoX Accessibility' started by Milo Kuhnen, Feb 16, 2025 at 1:42 AM.

  1. Milo Kuhnen
    Milo Kuhnen Guest

    Can't play Minecraft multiplayer even though I am 18 and the only one in my Microsoft family


    Yo,

    For context:

    Back in 2020 I was running a server with a couple of friends, and after I updated the game and server to 1.17, I was unable to enter multiplayer (the button was locked). To this day, that is the case, even though I'm 18 now.
    The button mentioned that I need to configure multiplayer via a family. Which was difficult because by that time I had already lost both of my parents. This meant that I was alone in a "family" and registered as a "child" unable to do anything. I felt pure malice and hatred that day.
    I tried resolving this with my stepdad by him making a random account and transferring my account to that family to configure it to play multiplayer but to no avail.

    The solution ended up being to make a whole new account and purchase another instance of Minecraft.

    Current issue:
    I recently wanted to check upon a server I was in, and went to launch the game. The multiplayer button was STILL locked.
    Since I'm now 18, I was able to leave the family and I hoped that would fix the problem, but no, nothing fixed.
    ‘‘Multiplayer is disabled. Please check your Microsoft account settings.’’

    There is apparently a setting in some xbox family, but I can not find it, the tab itself that people mention is not there.
    I can't find anything with the "Microsoft Family Safety" thingy either.

    (in 2020) I have tried:
    - Changing settings (locked)
    - Leaving family (locked)
    - Calling Microsoft (to no avail)
    - Joining another family (didn't make a difference)

    Right now, I have tried:
    - Changing settings (can't find them)
    - Leaving family (nothing happened)
    - Downloaded xbox family app (didn't find the setting)

    This is mental cruelty, please help...

    :)
     
  2. Rodrigo Oliver Win User

    Parental consent even though i am 18 and not even in a family?

    Hello Ruby,

    I am glad it worked out.

    Thank you.

    Please, give back to the Community.

    Help the next person who has this issue by indicating if this reply solved your problem.

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  3. ruby villella Win User

    Parental consent even though i am 18 and not even in a family?

    Hi!

    thank you so much for your response. i added my billing info into my account and it worked!!!
  4. Rodrigo Oliver Win User

    Parental consent even though i am 18 and not even in a family?

    Hi Ruby, my name is Rodrigo. I'm an Independent Advisor and a member of the Microsoft community and I'd love to assist you today.

    I am sorry to hear that.

    Your Xbox account age starts from the Date of Birth you entered when creating your profile online.

    Once you hit 18, it becomes an adult account automatically. Just make sure your birthday on the account is correct.

    You can check it here: https://support.microsoft.com/accou...-account-837badbc-999e-54d2-2617-d19206b9540a

    If your Date of Birth is correct, try adding a payment method and billing information to your Microsoft Account.

    Sign in to the Microsoft account you want to update.

    https://account.microsoft.com/

    Go to Payment & billing and select Payment options.

    You can add or edit payment options here.

    If that still does not work, the best course of action is to contact Support and provide the necessary information to validate your date of birth.

    Please enter this link: https://support.microsoft.com/home/contact

    Then, follow these steps:

    Type in your query: "Agent"

    Click on Get Help.

    Scroll down the page and click on Contact Support.

    Select your "Other Products" and "Billing and Account Profile Questions" > Confirm.

    Select "Chat with a support agent in your web browser" > Confirm > Start Chat.

    I hope this helps.

    Source:

    https://support.xbox.com/help/subsc...es/manage-payment-options-and-billing-address
  5. Andrew_Kerr17 Win User

    Microsoft Family - I Can't leave my own family

    I am having the exact same issue. I am an adult, but as I am the only member of the family group I am not allowed to leave it. It prevents me from playing multiplayer Minecraft with my family, and the only way to get out of that is by leaving the family group which I cannot do. Is there a way around this?
  6. andersonpassos Win User

    I can't edit xbox family settings even though I am the only one in the family.

    Thank you for contact us! I'm Anderson, an Independent Consultant and a Microsoft user like you.

    Good morning

    Try creating a new account and add the old account to a family as in the link, then remove the account from the family
    https://support.microsoft.com/en-us/account-bil...
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