Can't get into my Xbox privacy settings because my account thinks i'm a child account

Its ok. Thanks for trying to help.

I will look for a solution but I'm sure someone will find one for you I apologize for this miss understanding and you're frustration.

Try holding down the power button the the xbox itself till it shuts off completely then try changing again

Hey there Temmie thanks for keeping in touch.

We suggest Creating a New Microsoft account and adding the current account to it under a family setting. Once that is done From the new account go ahead and change the settings. We understand this is confusing so the
best course of action would be to Request
a Callbackfrom one of our Xbox Support Specialists since they are the best equipped, tool wise, to handle this type of issues in a step by step manner. Give it a
shot and let us know how it goes.

as soon as I sign in to seemingly anything Xbox related, It leads me to the page I talked about in my main post