cant connect to privte chat with friends

Discus and support cant connect to privte chat with friends in XBoX on Consoles to solve the problem; Hi, I am currently unable to connect to a private chat with my friend while we are playing. We are both xbox live gold members, both on the 360, both... Discussion in 'XBoX on Consoles' started by NERO RAVENZBRUK, Sep 18, 2014.

  1. cant connect to privte chat with friends


    Hi, I am currently unable to connect to a private chat with my friend while we are playing. We are both xbox live gold members, both on the 360, both using wired headset that came with 360 package, both have excellent internet connections. We are currently
    playing dark souls, can play together but everytime he or I accept each others chat invites it connects and instantly disconnects, We've never had this problem before, it started last week, we kept trying even turning off xbox and testing network connections,
    everything fine no error messages, after giving up after doing all this half an hour later we tried a few times again on the 10th or 11th try from each of us we finally got a connection. Its happening again today and nothing is working to get us a private
    chat line, we have also tried all different lines too.

    Could someone please help me? I would really appreciate it.

    Yours Sinceerely (Daniel)

    :)
     
    NERO RAVENZBRUK, Sep 18, 2014
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  2. ER1C M3NAR0
    ER1C M3NAR0 Guest
    Defficulty to connect whut adir player on group

    I have defdiculty to connect wih my friend in xbix group chat my connection is on green and my friend to wy a cant play with my friend on xbix chat group
     
    ER1C M3NAR0, Sep 18, 2014
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  3. xbox one party chat cant connect to friends who have a 360?

    xbox one party chat cant connect to friends who have a 360?
     
    UnrealSLIM JIM, Sep 18, 2014
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  4. cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Sorry i forgot to mention that messages are working fine both text and voice, just the chat connection is the problem.

    Yours Sincerely Dan
     
    NERO RAVENZBRUK, Sep 18, 2014
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  5. Your NAT may be the issue between you two! do you know what your NAT is set to and what your friends NAT is set to?

    Please see the table in this post that show what NAT types are compatible.

    IF you have trouble understanding the table Post back saying so and i will explain it better for you
     
    DesertStrider, Sep 19, 2014
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  6. [table][tr]OpenModerateStrict[/tr][tr][td]Open[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][/tr][tr][td]Moderate[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][td]NO[/td][/tr][tr][td]Strict[/td][td]YES[/td][td]No[/td][td]NO[/td][/tr][/table]
     
    DesertStrider, Sep 19, 2014
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  7. Thanks for the reply, sorry i took so long. I checked my NAT and its open but i havent had a chance to ask my friend to test his connection yet, but if mine is open and his is strict hypothetically would i still b able to speak to him anytime or would it
    be only occasional or harder to connect? I only ask as it looks that way from the appearance of the table above.

    Im sorry for taking so long to reply its just that i havent been in contact with my friend yet. Thankyou for your help.

    Yours Sincerely, Dan
     
    NERO RAVENZBRUK, Sep 26, 2014
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  8. cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Yes you may be able to talk to him, I use to have a strict NAT and the way i found to fix it was to enable port Forwarding and give my XBOX a static IP and place that IP in DMZ. mode. Now regarding port forwarding and how to do it is there any way your
    friend can make an account and post on this thread, that way i can help them with it, i only ask because i don't want any information to get lost in the passing on. Thanks and have a great day.

    From

    .
     
    DesertStrider, Oct 6, 2014
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  9. M Llama
    M Llama Guest
    Odd question, for benchmark reasons... I understand you state "all other lines" but that can mean different tings to different people. Following the exact same steps as with private chat, can you and your friend start a private party without this issue happening?
    What about an open party? I am curious if it is a communications issue/conflict or if it is specifically the chat option where you are having issues. Specifically, what happens if you do this with private party? What happens with open party?

    I agree with everything DesertStrider has said and shown in the chart. If your friend could join the conversation, it would be quite helpful.
     
    M Llama, Oct 31, 2018
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  10. M Llama Win User

    cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Odd question, for benchmark reasons... I understand you state "all other lines" but that can mean different tings to different people. Following the exact same steps as with private chat, can you and your friend start a private party without this issue happening?
    What about an open party? I am curious if it is a communications issue/conflict or if it is specifically the chat option where you are having issues. Specifically, what happens if you do this with private party? What happens with open party?

    I agree with everything DesertStrider has said and shown in the chart. If your friend could join the conversation, it would be quite helpful.
  11. DesertStrider Win User

    cant connect to privte chat with friends

    [table][tr]OpenModerateStrict[/tr][tr][td]Open[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][/tr][tr][td]Moderate[/td][td]YES[/td][td]YES[/td][td]NO[/td][/tr][tr][td]Strict[/td][td]YES[/td][td]No[/td][td]NO[/td][/tr][/table]
  12. NERO RAVENZBRUK Win User

    cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Sorry i forgot to mention that messages are working fine both text and voice, just the chat connection is the problem.

    Yours Sincerely Dan
  13. DesertStrider Win User

    cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Yes you may be able to talk to him, I use to have a strict NAT and the way i found to fix it was to enable port Forwarding and give my XBOX a static IP and place that IP in DMZ. mode. Now regarding port forwarding and how to do it is there any way your
    friend can make an account and post on this thread, that way i can help them with it, i only ask because i don't want any information to get lost in the passing on. Thanks and have a great day.

    From

    .
  14. NERO RAVENZBRUK Win User

    cant connect to privte chat with friends

    Thanks for the reply, sorry i took so long. I checked my NAT and its open but i havent had a chance to ask my friend to test his connection yet, but if mine is open and his is strict hypothetically would i still b able to speak to him anytime or would it
    be only occasional or harder to connect? I only ask as it looks that way from the appearance of the table above.

    Im sorry for taking so long to reply its just that i havent been in contact with my friend yet. Thankyou for your help.

    Yours Sincerely, Dan
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