Can't connect to friends stardew

I have tried this too still can't connect

I see, one last step you could try is to check if your NAT type is Open because that could sometimes interfere.to check for the NAT type you can follow the steps below:

Settings > Network Settings > NAT type => It should be open.

If the NAT type is not open, you will need to open some ports with your internet provider. These ports must be open for Xbox Live to work: Port 88 (UDP) Port 3074 (UDP and TCP) Port 53 (UDP and TCP) Port 80 (TCP) Port 500 (UDP) Port 3544 (UDP) Port 4500 (UDP).

If the NAT was already open, it seems that the best option in this case is to get in touch with the developer of the game to see if they are facing any issues from their end that could be causing this and to also check your in-game account for you and make sure everything is under control.

I would like you follow the troubleshooting steps mentioned here in case you missed any => Troubleshoot your network connection speed | Xbox Support. If the issue persists, it appears that a reset could resolve your issue, to do so you will need to follow the steps below to perform a reset on the Xbox :

Settings > System > Console Info > Reset This Xbox > Reset and Keep my Games and Apps.

Note =>The "Reset and Keep my Games and Apps" option will not cause losing your games, but please be aware that you need to be completely aware of the email address as well as the password of your account before going for it because it will require you to sign in to the account.

Let me know if this was helpful!

Please provide this link to your friend and ask your friend to log in and see if there is an install option, https://www.xbox.com/en-US/games/store/stardew-....

I have a friend who made a pixel Bob Ross on Stardew Valley, if that counts. 😅