BG3 Can’t continue an existing Private multiplayer game with friend. Does anyone know if...

BG3 just launched on Xbox. Started a fresh new game with a friend. On PC / Steam we did not need to access the landing page Multiplayer menu which seemed like a match making or select a server process. We would Continue our game & then In Game open Multiplayer & Invite.

Seems that this is not possible on Xbox, as we can’t find / invite each other. ***Does anyone know if you really have to wait through the Multiplayer “Finding lobbies” to play a private friend to friend saved multiplayer game??

I’m assuming this is Larians servers getting maxed out. Xbox Game Studios has like 2000 x more resources than Larian so WHY couldn’t they help them with multiplayer infrastructure & resources for the game sweeping all awards & building fans & sales?

Wanna bet Xbox invested & may still be in “Blizzard” owned DiabloIV multiplayer infrastructure? The now steaming pile of Corpo greed game mechanics & zero engaging story? But the dope Indie studio that wrote & made a story many love and clearly want to play? Naw they are on their own. Wait, how much of my $70 did Xbox get again?

Rant over. Any thoughtful answers to these questions are appreciated!

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