360 to One Digital Upgrade still not working

it will most likely start at 3 am et

No, this offer only works from the Xbox 360 to the Xbox one, more info on this page here
www.destinythegame.com/.../digital-upgrade

You should be, but note the 360 disc will NOT work in the Xbox One. You'll need to "upgrade" but I'd be quick because the store-upgrade thing could finish as early as the 31st December. (Not guaranteed, just digital downloads did this for 360--->One.)

Yes the season pass will transfer from 360 will to Xbox One.

www.destinythegame.com/digital-upgrade

it will work, if you bought the digital copy from the MS market place it will work not sure about any others:

www.callofduty.com/.../nextgen

Q.
How does the Xbox next-generation upgrade program work?

A.
Microsoft offers the Xbox 360 + Xbox One Digital Combo, a disc-less dual-license that provides the Xbox 360 digital version of Call of Duty: Ghosts, as well as the Xbox One digital version of Call of Duty: Ghosts – linked and unlocked via a user’s Xbox Live
gamertag. The Xbox 360 + Xbox One Digital Combo will be available at participating retailers for a suggested retail price of $69.99.

Alternatively, via the Xbox Live Market place, players can also purchase an Xbox 360 digital version of Call of Duty: Ghosts for a suggested retail price of $59.99. And when ready to upgrade to Xbox One, players can purchase a digital Xbox One version of Call
of Duty: Ghosts for a suggested retail price of just $10 until May 31, 2014. This also applies to Call of Duty: Ghosts Digital Hardened Edition purchases.

Q.
When I upgrade from digital download for Xbox 360 to digital download for Xbox One, will my digital Xbox 360 game license be deactivated?

A.No, Xbox 360 game license will not be deactivated. Both game licenses will be retained.