Not able to communicate in mcpe multiplayer servers

Hi there! This is Virginia O.

I understand that you are experiencing issues with not being able to communicate in mcpe multiplayer servers.

I apologize for the inconvenienced this has caused you. I will do my best to help you.

Please check multiplayer permissions by making sure that you have the necessary permissions to join multiplayer games, especially if you are a child account. This can be managed through parental controls, through this link: https://go.microsoft.com/fwlink/p/?LinkId=746875

And then review the Xbox Live privacy settings to ensure that they are not overly restrictive. Ensure that "You can communicate outside of Xbox Live with voice & text" is enabled.

Next is check the game settings in Minecraft Bedrock Edition to ensure that multiplayer is enabled and that you are using the correct server address too.

Then, it is important that your network is not blocking any ports or connections related to Minecraft multiplayer.

Thank you for your cooperation.

Why dont play server in mcpe

Hello,

Can you confirm that this is the issue you are facing? [MCPE-36190] Multiplayer Connection Issues and Workarounds - Jira (mojang.com)

Thank you,

Do you have an Xbox Live account that is set up and signed into the game?

Try downloading the Xbox App and adding your friend. Navigate to the Friends and Clubs section and type your friends username into the search bar. Though, if your friend has not made a microsoft account, doing so would give you the ability to add them.